Four very different women told the stories of their first time to sex expert Tracey Cox. Allow us to do some rapid-fire myth-busting: I'm happy I saved my virginity to the right time, and I know I won't regret it. So did they — or didn't they — prove the theory? Most of your questions come from straight couples. A few girls who have sex for the first time could experience some soreness for a day or two.
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Give yourself a lot of time to have sex the first time. When are you not a virgin? Light, darkness and belonging in a modernist housing scheme — York, York. Of course the focus here will mainly be on your partner, as she is the one who is losing her virginity, but that doesn't mean you fall out of the picture completely. If you say you have, you're a slut. These people decide that sex is not merely a biological act but something more important.
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The association of virginity loss with a penetrative vaginal sexual act is problematic because it makes heterosexual sex the standard by which we understand virginity. We get better at this, all of us — having kinds of sex and making sexual choices — with practice over time. My self-esteem is still low and I don't trust men. If you'd had vaginal intercourse with a male partner without using a condom and he ejaculated, there would be traces of ejaculate. We might instantly forget most of the routine sex we have later in life but that first, clumsy, five-minute fumble is hard etched into memory and can have extraordinary repercussions. My mom says she wants to take me to the gynecologist to check my virginity.
You learn to endure the agony but there is no pleasure and definitely no orgasm. I'm sure they led me to spend more time chatting with my mates in the pub, or dancing in a moshpit to the Ramones, than kissing and hero-worshipping boys. Many men think that because they're men, they should be in charge of the sex, regardless of who has the more experience. Will my future husband be able to tell? Whether a girl decides to use a tampon or a pad is completely up to her. The affairs hurt us both but we stuck together and we make a real effort to keep doing new, interesting things sexually and it's working well.